【Sex Guide】5 Foreplay Techniques to Absolutely Thrill Your Girlfriend

Hello everyone, I'm Xiaoxue~ I'm curious if all you snow fans out there put an effort into "foreplay" before engaging in sexual activity? Many guys might think that just touching, rubbing, or licking counts as foreplay, but such lackluster attempts are hardly satisfying for women.

Good foreplay is like a great movie trailer—if the trailer is enticing, people will want to go to the theater to watch it. Likewise, when foreplay is done right, it makes women eagerly anticipate the lovemaking that follows.

Today, I've put together five major foreplay techniques for you to explore, try them out, and maybe you'll discover a new dimension of pleasure with your girlfriend.

Hugging

A hug is essentially the signal to begin foreplay. Gently wrap your arms around your partner's waist, make eye contact, and lightly nuzzle noses. Alternatively, hug her from behind, whisper softly in her ear, getting her mentally prepared for the intimacy that's about to unfold.

Kissing

When it comes to kissing, there are many key areas to focus on. Lips aren't the only spot to kiss; earlobes, the neck, collarbone, breasts, and all the way down to the nether regions are all suitable places to explore. If you're close enough, you can even try leaving some love bites!

Caressing

While kissing, don't let your hands stay idle. Remember, aside from caressing her private parts and breasts, areas like the scalp, back, and waist are excellent spots to gently touch. Use more than just your fingertips; the pads of your fingers and palm can provide a lovely sensation too. Be sure to be gentle and avoid being too forceful. If you're unsure where to touch, you can follow the same path as your kisses, caressing the areas as you go along.

Oral Sex

When it comes to oral sex, you've reached one of the main stages of arousal. It's advisable to start by using your tongue around the labia majora. Move from outside to inside, slow to fast, beginning with gentle licks on the labia majora, making sure to tend to both sides, and gradually working your way to the labia minora. If a man feels uneasy about any potential odor, don't hesitate to use flavored lubricants designed for oral sex.

Once the labia are tended to, it's time to focus on the clitoris, the woman's most sensitive area. Use the tip of your tongue to softly stimulate the clitoral head. You might also try gently sucking on it with your lips while using your tongue. Always avoid letting your teeth come in contact, as that could cause discomfort.

Fingering

The final step is to introduce the fingers into the vagina to provide additional stimulation. This is a great time to search for your partner's G-spot. Start by inserting just one finger, gradually increasing as she becomes more aroused. Never go straight for three fingers; beginning with one allows you to gauge her level of wetness. If necessary, arouse her further or add lubricants. Remember: patience makes the experience more thrilling and satisfying.

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Of course, once foreplay is complete, you move on to the main event. Xiaoxue won’t say more on this, as most of you probably already know what to do. However, there's an important point I must emphasize.

Many men tend to disengage post-ejaculation, experiencing what’s known as "post-nut clarity" or indulging in a "post-coital cigarette"—a natural response to ejaculating. Yet, ignoring your partner after reaching climax may leave them feeling unfulfilled.

If you've put so much effort into both foreplay and the main act, why not extend the courtesy to aftercare? It doesn't require much energy—simply cuddle your partner, whisper sweet nothings, and wrap up your session with a tender touch. It's these little gestures that fortify a long-term relationship!